Rape Culture – Cover Your Eyes

•Saturday, May 30, 2015 • Leave a Comment

While you were sleeping


Rape culture is when I was six, and my brother punched my two front teeth out. Instead of reprimanding him, my mother said “Stefanie, what did you do to provoke him?” When my only defense was my mother whispering in my ear, “Honey, ignore him. Don’t rile him up. He just wants a reaction.” As if it was my sole purpose, the reason six-year-old me existed, was to not rile up my brother. It’s starts when we’re six, and ends when we grow up assuming the natural state of a man is a predator, and I must walk on eggshells, as to not “rile him up.” Right, mom?

Rape culture is when through casual dinner conversation, my father says that women who get raped are asking for it. He says, “I see them on the streets of New York City, with their short skirts and heavy makeup. Asking for it.”…

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•Monday, January 7, 2008 • Leave a Comment

a real update is in the works, i promise.  it’ll all depend on how much sleep i get in the next few days as to when it will appear.  but i promise, by the end of this week 🙂

•Wednesday, December 12, 2007 • Leave a Comment

please pray for my grandfather and my family. for healing and for strength. thanks.


•Friday, September 21, 2007 • Leave a Comment

you have been informed well ahead of many others, please don’t discuss it on places such as facebook at the present moment.  i think facebook is the only place it isn’t safe yet.  haven’t given my notice at work, and i don’t need a specific co-worker knowing until then.

when i am not so busy with my procrastination of cleaning up and out my room and starting the packing process, i will share more details with all of you.


p.s. it’s a good thing.

•Friday, September 14, 2007 • Leave a Comment


•Friday, June 1, 2007 • Leave a Comment

Happy Canada Day!

If you are a facebook friend of mine, keep your eyes open for pictures to follow after Canada’s 140th Birthday – National Capital Style!

i’m still alive!

•Friday, May 18, 2007 • Leave a Comment

i made it safely to europe!  we had a grand time in Amsterdam.   too bad my camera’s battery died so no pictures from my camera, but liam took some…. we got to Brussels this evening… definitely taking loads of pictures from now on to compensate!